Collaborative Law will protect your privacy, it will enhance communication and co-parenting skills, and most importantly, it will protect your children from the harm that comes with protracted litigation between parents over family law matters. If you want to maintain control over decision making and not hand over decisions about child rearing or restructuring finances to a stranger, such as a judge or other judicial authority, and if you seek a civilized, respectful resolution to your issues, then this is the appropriate process for you. Clients who select the Collaborative Law process understand that conflict resolution with integrity involves not only achieving his or her own goals, but also finding a way to achieve the reasonable goals of the other person. This provides a win-win solution. Share the information on this website with your spouse and explore other informational links that will help explain the Collaborative Law process. If you and your spouse are both interested in the Collaborative Law process you should each select an attorney from the attorney list and meet individually with your chosen attorney. Either spouse may meet with more than one attorney before selecting counsel.